Remember this: The bottom is in control no matter what the fantasy is or looks like.
Any sex position, where the bottom is on top, gives the bottom more control over the speed and angle of penetration.
The most logical position that promotes easy insertion and best chance at early success is the Reverse Cowboy. For those who don’t know, the Reverse Cowboy position finds the top lying on his back. The bottom straddles the top at the hips to find himself facing the top’s feet. The position completely mimics the favored Doggy position and causes the Bottom to lean forward at the hips, and arch his lower back slightly in order for the position to work. This position straightens the terminal end of the bowel giving unimpeded entry. This position puts the bottom in control of the speed of entry.
Take your time and know that our team is here to help. The more experience you get, the more you will know your own timing and needs. Once everyone is in position, wait until you are completely ready to start moving. If you can squeeze your anal sphincter and relax your anal sphincter around your partner’s penis, you have wiggle room and you are ready to go.